THIS RL TRAGEDY DIDN'T HAVE TO HAPPEN!!!

Fellow Gayvies, sorry to inject some RL into the blog, but when the bullshit hits the fan, yours truly is gonna wipe it off the wall if no one else will.

Baby, Baby, Baby. I dunno why I carried around that Cosmo cover of you for a summer in England, other than it made me feel good to look at you. I have an answer to one of your questions from your documentary: the reason you died is cuz the medical establishment and judeo-christian culture are too squeamish to talk about anal sex. Makes them uncomfy to think that men may be using the "back door": LIKE MEN HAVEN'T BEEN DOING THIS TO OTHER MEN, WOMEN, GIRLS AND BOYS FOR MILLENIA!

Farrah baby, one of your guys (who the fuck cares which one) used your back door and shared his HPV (human papilloma virus) with you, kinda like it happens with lots of gays in RL. Some strains of HPV are lethal, which is why women get pap smears and why there is a vaccine today (which works for men too, but is not administered to men, guess cuz they get to die if they are on the receiving end of some anal sex). Cervical cancer=HPV infection. Problem is doctors are too uncomfortable to ask women or men if they may have used their "back door", for whatever reason.

So, sweet baby, the answer to your question is that the medical establishment and everyone else has to GET OVER their squeamishness about people having some anal sex. Doctors have to ask the simple, fukkin question: "do we need to examine your anus for potential HPV infection"? How long would that question take to ask, 3 seconds? The equipment exists, the knowledge exists, but no one has the fukkin courage to get the ball rolling on examining for HPV infection in the back door.

Why do people have to die, before a cause gets started? Farrah baby, you'd be alive today if homophobe/puritanical/squeamish doctors would get over themselves. Coulda been done during yur routine pap smear, but ooooooh, anal sex, makes everyone so uncomfy to talk about. Well FUCK THAT. Doctors: START ASKING. BAREBACKING GAY BOYS WHO LIKE IT UP THE ASS: START ASKING FOR THE FIRST 8 to 10 INCHES OF YOUR ASSHOLE TO BE EXAMINED FOR POTENTIAL HPV INFECTION, UNLESS YOU WANT TO END UP LIKE FARRAH: WATCH HER DOCUMENTARY, IT AIN'T PRETTY.

Thanks Farrah, for sharing that smile. It warmed me up.