KM+BA Part 1

BA was my first SL blend, i.e. my RL emotions became involved to a point where RL KM was in love. (In the spirit of SL, I will never reveal the names of gayvies with whom I've had a private experience).
Blond, blue-eyed, buff, bottom BA. It started physically with a vengeance. While he claimed to be mostly top, he was decidedly my bottomboi. This was before KM owned his first house, so BA+KM would make out at Hot 'n Hung, the Bareback Woodsman club, or any club darkroom we could find. With the recurring hook-ups and also being noobs, we both fell OOC (out of character, or out of control, whichever) rapidly. An internet veteran, KM knew that RL personal data like a phone # or addy were off-limits. But that didn't prevent SL KM to begin to discuss RL KM. Living in the same time zone also sped things along, as we were frequently online and both suffering from noob addiction to SL.
So the attachment grew and up pops monogamy. RL KM doesn't do casual sex. However, when the whoremones were flowing, SL KM needed his fix of BA's most awesum gayvie body. Initially, when BA wasn't online, KM felt this 'loyalty', much like a RL relationship. However, within a few weeks, if BA weren't online, and some hawt gayvie came in my crosshairs, well, so much for willpower in SL. Then RL KM felt 'guilty'.
I learned that BA had joined a "gay soccer club", a group of gayvies interested in soccer who "showered after games in the lockerroom". Uh huh, rite.
One night, BA invited one of these soccer buddies over to a little house BA had just bot on the mainland. Well, soccerbud was HAWT. Before long we were a 3-soming, which, btw, RL KM had never experienced. My gayvie gaydar told me these two had played before on their own. So after soccerbud left, it was put out in the open.
We decided that we'd give ourselves the freedom to play if one of us was offline. However, this did not change our affection for each other, which was running pretty deep at that point. Surprising RL KM, I was "in love".
Then came a revelation from BA, that he had a RL partner of 18 years, but it was sexless. RL BA wasn't happy about that. KM told BA that given that RL LTR, we would never "go live", i.e meet-up in RL. Sorry, but it's not my style to get involved with guys with partners, if I can at all avoid it.
We agreed that we'd continue on in SL, and take it a day at a time.
This being in 2006, there was no voice in SL. The blends were getting worse, the addiction led to more and more OOC. We exchanged phone numbers.
To be continued......